Thursday, January 10, 2013
Falling in Love at 49 | Midlife Crisis Queen: It's never too late
Falling in Love at 49 | Midlife Crisis Queen: It's never too late to find out who you might have been!
And besides being a shy, private person himself, Mike was also fearful of bringing another into his off and on struggle with chronic fatigue (CFS).
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This is always a concern. In addition to the usual pitfalls of dating, we have to find someone who can cope with the symptoms and flexibility. My ex was not particularly good at flexible, and took it as a personal affront when I didn't feel up to doing something with him. I wanted to do something with him, just not the physical activity he wanted to do that day; I would've been happy to curl up on the couch with a movie, or maybe even go out to a movie, but he couldn't flex that way.
There are other posts in this blog about dating, and links to dating websites that specialize in the disabled. Do a search for them, because this is one of those days that I'm not up to much beyond getting food.